Secondly, it would appear that there is no spiritual aspect to your recovery.
I would further suggest that, if you were to involve yourself with the AA program, there is a good chance that you would develop a spiritual awareness that might help your anger issues.
Of course, I could be totally wrong about the above, but these are just suggestions that have worked well for me.
After reading this post and the two post you referenced therein, a couple of things appear rather obvious.
First, it seems pretty clear that AA is not a part of your life.
If it is, it doesn't appear that you have embraced the 12 steps.
I would suggest that you consider making AA part of your life.
I might also humbly suggest that you read my note entitled “There is More to Recovery Than Physical Sobriety.” https://substack.com/@rllewis/note/c-80709477
Secondly, it would appear that there is no spiritual aspect to your recovery.
I would further suggest that, if you were to involve yourself with the AA program, there is a good chance that you would develop a spiritual awareness that might help your anger issues.
Of course, I could be totally wrong about the above, but these are just suggestions that have worked well for me.
Good luck!